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Living within our means and being content
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Living within our means and being content
“Riches are not from an abundance of goods, but from a content mind”
Many people possess the material luxuries of the world and are still unhappy. In fact they are often the most miserable people, striving to fulfil their needs, but failing to be satisfied. Their wealth becomes an evil and is acquired to spend on luxuries in order to seek some form of contentment. However, what they fail to understand is that contentment is not about wanting more; it is about appreciating what you already have. The Prophet (saw) said “When a person sees a person who has better wealth and beauty, let him look at the ones who have less than him.” (Bukhari). When one is content he will live in peace, harmony and happiness, qualities that cannot be valued or purchased.
Our society puts pressure on an individual to produce or to perish or to compete, making the rich richer and the poor poorer. It is the intrinsic nature of humans to claim and want more, seek a position and show off. In such a society there is little contentment, because it is never enough. Greed is the means by which we are successful. In many ways it drives us to climb and be ambitious. However when not contained this very greed can ultimately bring us ruin both in this life and the akirah. This is why we have been advised by Allah (swt) and His Messenger (saw) to live within our means. The Prophet (saw) said that wealth is a pleasure when acquired in a rightful way and spent in a rightful way. Thus income should not be expended in such ways that are condemned by our deen. Extravagances, spending in customs which have no Shariah sanction, spending for the sake of gaining name, spending on unnecessary luxuries- luxuries which are far in excess of one's needs are evil ways which bring about ruin in both mundane and spiritual life. We should have no more then we need.
Let us take the example of our beloved Prophet (saw). His eyes welled with tears when he saw Fatimah (ra) wearing a dress made of camel hairs yet he advised her to endure the hardships and poverty with patience in order to acquire the comfort of paradise. Similarly, Umar (ra) witnessed the simple life of the Prophet (saw) and said: “O Messenger of Allah! While kings sleep in soft, feather beds, you are lying on a rough mat. You are the Messenger of Allah and thereby deserve more than any other people to live an easy life. The Prophet (saw) was reported to have replied: ‘Do you not agree that the luxuries of the world should be theirs but those of the Hereafter ours?’” (Bukhari). There is no doubt that the closest people to Allah (swt) lived very simple lives with contentment. So why is it that we are chasing after worldly possessions in this temporary life?
The following are some principles that can help us develop contentment in our own lives Inshallah:
All humans are in state of poverty and are in need of Allah (swt) helps. In time of prosperity you are in more need of Allah (swt) help then you are in poverty. This life is temporary as are all its contents. Flash cars, designer clothes, riches, are all but amusements that are self destructive. Everything perishes. The only thing that will remain with us is our good works. |
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